Recently, indeed things are not going that well for me. Yet in such difficult situations, I learnt more things. And as there is no bed of roses and smooth sailing life all the time. Shit happens, and it does to everyone. It all depends on how you view and take things that have happened on you. If you're taking it negatively then it will have only adverse effect on you and conversely if you're tackling it from a positive side of view, you ll learn and eventually gain from it.

Say, a problem. Or even a misfortune, or something very bad that happened on you. If you let it occupy and trouble you mind and soul, it will eventually prevails in you and "eats up" / destroys your soul and mentality, this is true.

So if you try to extract the lesson/ value out of it, you gain. Somehow, you benefit from it. Take the lesson, take the positive gain, and "put down" the negative elements, the trouble itself, the box, the heavy burden, dont let it stay and make home in your heart. Neither your mind. Then only you can move on and walk towards more positive things in your life. Of course, as I ve said earlier, there is no smooth sailing life, inevitably there re be more hurdles, more problems, but at least through the problems we ve encountered and overcame, we learned and indeed have become much stronger than before. We are not those protected birds in the cage. Yes, we are injured, but at least we are flying up high, freely, and stronger than ever. Ok what's with the birds now?? zzz cut the crap, REMEMBER TO BREATHE AND LIFE ( GREAT LIFE!) GOES ON STILL!

nah a photo of a bird to end the post. i dont know what bird is this but this is what we have, a lot of them , walking on the streets in Newcastle and of which timaomao loves to sepak when they walk in front of him zzzz

Gain strength by not reacting to provocations of negative words and deeds directed against you.