Sunday 7 September 2008

TIPS on winning a gal's heart[Part 2]

DOs and DONTs......
  1. DO spent some time on figuring out WHAT SHE WANTS and WHAT SHE NEEDS.In this case,you will know WHAT TYPE OF GUY SHE NEEDS OR WANTS.so lihai lihai sikit loh,once u know that,if u think you REALLY like her liao,sacrifice a bit for her
  2. *****BEAR THIS IN MIND*****This is so so so so so so five starimportant! DONT let her know that you want to chase her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Or else you might freak her out...UNLESS you so very the sure that SHE IS CRAZY OF YOU,then different story la...
  3. Anyway,DO tell and ask opinions from your friends bout the gal.FRIENDS bah,they sure will tell you if that gal suits you or you actually suit that gal or not?Plus they may provide other important,relevant tips for you.If they dont THEN CONFIRM UR THAT FREN WANNA GRAB THE GAL FROM YOU!!!
  4. DONT be too rush!Too rush is not a good approach.DO it step by step.If the gal is not your fren yet,then servay la what club she join kah in skul/college/uni so that you join also...Jia Jia as if you get to know here there-.- Always start from friends relationship first!Cos based on my personal experience,LIGHTNING relationship NEVER LAST long.
  5. DO try to talk or have a friendly chat with her.ANYWAY MAKE SURE you have the 'right' topic.....DONT start with,wah today weather so good hor?Cos thats L.A.M.E
  6. DO always stay by her side just like a guardian angel.At her time of trials and sorrows...BE THERE FOR HER.believe me,this works!Somehow she will realise how much you matter in her life cos you were there,not someone else when she need someone.
  7. I dont know why but this is popular.DO have a good SENSE OF HUMOUR.Try to tell her jokes or find some funny topics when you talk to her..This will make her feel more relaxed and of course,enhance your relationship development.
  8. DONT be too open minded even if she is one.Cos she will feel you not serious.If later on you confess she might take you as a cincai-cincai guy....cincai guy is a NO NO to be a bf
  9. When u see her, call her name and greet her. Or give a smile to her. If can pls talk with her for a second. Warning>> when u smile, ur face dont be cheeky or horney looking!! That will scare her..hehe remember!
  10. When you confirmed that she feels comfortable hanging out with you,try to plan outings with her.DO PLAN PRECISELY.for eg dont plan bring her go Buntal eat seafood without knowing she actually has seafood allergy-.- kantoi!
  11. When you talk to her,look into her eyes.EYES CONTACT rules!This one ah,70% success!
  12. DONT SPEED when she is in the car.DONT act like Ah Beng okay.Unless your target is AH LIAN.who cares....remember,she will feel good if she knows that you do appreciate her life-.-!so pls dont drive recklessly
  13. DO open car door for her=) bit old fashion but now rarely got guy would do this so it will be a merit if you do.
  14. DONT act like UHU GUM-.- she needs freedom and time of her own.
  15. BE a gentleman lah!DONT let her pay for whatever lah during your outings together,not to say girls r materialistic but if you really like her dont tell me she not worthful for buying all the food/drinks/movie tickets???
  16. DO surprise her with small gifts.*sweet*
  17. DO love both her strong and weak points........EVERY gal need a guy like this.
  18. When she is sick,be her 'nurse'.
  19. DONT swear/utter rude words!unless she is Ah Lian.Ah Lian love her bf speak rudely!
  20. DO give her girlfriends good impression. bribe themAhem DONT FORGET as besties,we always stand the most important role to give opinions about admirers...which one better which one not qualified etc *evil grins*

When u do all the steps above, Maybe she already know that u like her.

If u think u want to continue on with her as a friend, a close friend in borderline as a lover, u can... But not too long.

It depend on u feeling toward her and her feeling toward u.

When the right time is coming, u can know ur answer.

RIGHT time+RIGHT person+RIGHT place=RIGHT and SUCCESSFUL relationship

6 comments:

Jeffrey said...

"When she is sick,be her 'nurse'."

swtnya...later all the nurse around unemployed ar ..
haha..hw to be nurse ooo???

X.Y.L.O said...

u forgot something....

walk her to her door....hahahahha u forgot?? grrr....lmao

Anonymous said...

lulz~! some of your tips are super ROFLMAO...

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DO try to talk or have a friendly chat with her.ANYWAY MAKE SURE you have the 'right' topic.....DONT start with,wah today weather so good hor?Cos thats L.A.M.E
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i wonder how do i do that??? -.-!

p/s: dez tips don't work on you, do they? :D

junana said...

uhu gum...lol

stupid_girl89 said...

hahaha.. gal, as if u are pro on this.. lolx.. its kinda funny bt some is true.. *high 5*

cutebun said...

Cool tips.. So true!!! =D